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17-07-2011, 08:05 AM | #211 |
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it's nice to see you miss. hope i think you should go to the therapist with your parents because she will know how your parents treet you even if they . didn't say or do anything waht did the dotor told you when you went to the hospital is there any improvment _____________________________________ |
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18-07-2011, 08:04 AM | #212 | |
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19-07-2011, 12:33 AM | #213 |
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hi miss. hope
first , i can only pray for you to get better en sha Allah and please let me know about the results second , i'm positive that going to the therapist along with your parents is a good thing for you , even you fight each other there third , it seems that we share somethings together when you said that you have zero respect for your father it's like you were repeating my exact words i mean , i'm always saying thing like this about him but , what can i do ? this is the nature of life and we have to fight in order to have some peace |
التعديل الأخير تم بواسطة ليش لا ; 19-07-2011 الساعة 12:36 AM
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19-07-2011, 01:06 AM | #214 |
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It's not right or ok to have zero respect for parents though
The religion says it's not right.. We should always treat them with respect any elderly in fact... That's how it should be.. We have zero respect, but we will be accountable for that zero respect on judgement day I try to, but it's easy said than actually done... Talk is easy... ACT is much stronger and weighs much more... WORDS actually mean nothing in comparison to act Eight more hrs before I need to start getting to go IN MY OWN CAR... Giving myself an hour of me morning time not going to rush cause I am already nervous... Than an hour just for the road unless I want to speed and rush... I will meet them there.. Their alone and I'm alone |
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19-07-2011, 06:02 AM | #215 |
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i know it's not right and it's not acceptable for us as sons and daughters
. to treat our parents or one of them in that way . however , it's not their right either to treat us in badly just because they are our parents i know it's not our place to judge them , but what can i do . i have been trying every possible way to make things better with my father , and i always fail by the way , yesterday i wanted to l you that i know some good doctors and therapist here . so if you want , i can the clinic's number i wish you the best of luck |
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19-07-2011, 07:57 PM | #216 |
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I wish I had more to say than what I am about to say about your father, but I had a very bad day in relation to my father partially as today was the day they went to my therapist.. I went too.. (it was mainly the worse thing about the day but turned into partially due to a memory marking shocking situation afterwards which wins for being the main bad thing)..
Hopefully ONE DAY you will succeed in making things better with your father.. If it changes to the better little by little that's still ok despite the slowness, just don't close doors on almost everything giving up.. I have closed and locked doors on so much even between me and myself... Something is better than nothing so keep the effort going with your father, it's something that deserves time, energy, and effort put into it... I think sometimes in a all or nothing way about things, but you can't think this way with these types of things About the clinic.. I am not in search for a good therapist... The therapist I have is very good, I have no complaints.. I could score him even better than very good... I'm the issue ME ME ME :( .. I feel so sorry for anyone who has to deal with me especially NOW... I can imagine I do make people frustrated.. I can't handle/stand myself for quite a long time lay.. It's just getting worse.. I can't/wont face anything anymore... I feel I'm barely standing heh if my state is even called standing,.. it's more like falling repeatively.. so I get worried I cant bare ANYMORE pain as a reasult of facing things.. I worry I will lose myself and I don't want that.. I scared to death about losing myself... I feel I feel enough pain already that I can't manage hardly so I don't want MORE!!!! Even if it's temporarily.. Also building things up more and more isn't a solution.. I wish there was a middle road... My Mom says you've become the specially of building walls.. She thought I wasn't that even when talking with my therapist which she didn't like as she saw herself today... It has nothing to do with him though or trust matters.. I wasn't like this before.. Stuck in my own web.. I'm really struggling.. Something happened today that will NEVER NEVER NEVER be erased from my memory.. Kinda don't know what meaning thought feeling reaction to give the situation pushing it to yet another closet in hope for it JUST not cross my mind :'( Your in Riyadh right? I ask because I'm not in Saudi Arabia, but in another gulf country... I would have wondered what the number is for doctors physical wise not psychologically, but were not living in the same area.. I don't think so Sultan I feel on this page like I'm a selfish person because I just talk about me me me... I like to try to be supportive to whose supportive to me in whatever circumstances/settings allow me to be supportive as well or at least a listening ear even if it seems like nothing but you never know sometimes little things do a lot, BUT all I do is talk about myself here too much... Feel FREE to talk too Sultan it doesn't bother me actually it will take my mind off myself I have a lot of free time.. A lot of free time in my world is bad for me.. I'm happier when I have things to do to fill my time up.. All this time after graduating is starting to feel like death or suffocation.. I stopped thinking about cancelling the job because I will go out of my mind if end up having even longer time with Nothing to do.. Day time job doesn't even feel like enough.. I want something similar a having more than a few classes in univ. where you go to class, but your work doesn't end because you have things to do home a lot for those classes.... You Know What I Mean!!? Boredom and too much time to just think more and more with hardly zero to nothing to do with your time isn't a good thing.. I don't think I can consider myself the type of person who can function that way |
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19-07-2011, 10:01 PM | #218 |
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Kareem are you talking to me or Sultan?
If your talking to me... Why not about what? I'm sorry I don't understand |
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19-07-2011, 11:49 PM | #221 | |
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20-07-2011, 10:06 PM | #222 |
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Sultan... I'll get back to you soon.. It's weird you've said you've said...
I'm silently laughing.. wondering.. thinking Hummm Well,.. I've got to go my mother wants me to take her to get a few things so C ya soon |
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21-07-2011, 07:08 PM | #223 | |
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23-07-2011, 01:02 AM | #224 |
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I know it only makes sense or meaning to me.. I was talking to myself haha.. you kind of sounded like another person though in a few things... coincidental
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23-07-2011, 01:52 AM | #225 | |
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